Kaitlyn Kupiec
@kaitlynkupiec
I can’t help but laugh as I think back to that wide-eyed freshman who strolled onto campus with dreams of becoming a physical therapist. Little did I know that my journey would take some unexpected turns, leading me to the person now writing to you. If I could sit down with that younger version of myself, I’d have plenty of advice to offer, and I’m excited to share my insights with you.
1. Embrace the Change
My first year was a whirlwind. At first, I was eager to start physical therapy, but I quickly found myself questioning whether it was the right fit for me. It felt like trying to walk in shoes that were too tight. There’s no need to panic if you begin to feel like this. College is your playground to explore and experiment, so take advantage of the opportunity to sample different classes and clubs. It’s perfectly okay to change your major or switch paths if you discover something that excites you more.
2. Ask Away: Questions Are Key
In college, it’s easy to feel like everyone else has it all figured out while you’re struggling to keep up. The pressure to blend in and understand everything on the spot can be overwhelming. Don’t hesitate to ask if you’re confused about something, even if you think it’s a silly question. I vividly remember sitting in a chemistry lecture feeling so lost, and when I finally asked for clarification, it turned out that many others were confused too. Asking questions is an important part of college: embrace your curiosity and speak up. You might find that your questions often help others who are feeling the same way.
3. Seek Support
College can feel like a rollercoaster, and reaching out for help shows strength. Looking back, I remember how overwhelmed I felt juggling coursework, extracurriculars and a social life. During one particularly tough semester, I finally decided to visit the Counseling Center on campus. I was hesitant at first because I was worried that it might make me look like I couldn’t handle things on my own. It turns out their support was a game-changer. Their guidance helped me navigate my uncertainties and led me to a major I truly love. If you’re feeling lost or overwhelmed, don’t wait – reach out to your advisor or counselor early on. They’ve dealt with students in similar situations and can help steer you in the right direction.
4. Everyone’s Scared: Even the Cool Kids are Nervous
Making new friends can feel as daunting as asking your crush out on a date. I remember feeling that way when I started college; it seemed like everyone else already had a group of friends and was perfectly at ease. Finding my crew took some time. Here’s the secret: everyone is a bit awkward when they’re trying to meet new people. Although you might think you’re the only one feeling this way, it’s anything but that. The chances are that the people you’re approaching are just as eager to make new friends as you are. Sometimes all it takes is one person to break the ice and say “Hi,” you’ll likely find that others are just waiting for someone else to make the first move.
5. Get Involved Early
Join clubs – not every club, though, unless you want your life to be a circus. I wish I had gotten involved in the clubs I’m passionate about earlier in my college journey. Not only did these clubs help me discover new interests, but they also introduced me to some of my best friends. Start by choosing one or two clubs that genuinely excite you and fit with your schedule. It’s worth noting that sometimes the clubs you least expect you’ll enjoy might be the most rewarding.
6. Go with the Flow
Sometimes the best experiences come from the unexpected. Whether it’s a road trip with friends to the grocery store or a core class that turns into a passion, be open to the surprises that college life throws your way. Embrace the unplanned opportunities because they have the potential to shape your college experience. Being open to surprises means being willing to step out of your comfort zone. Stay flexible, and you’ll find out the best parts of your journey are often the ones you didn’t see coming.
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